MY MOM SOARED WITH HER STRENGTHS…

My mother passed away a few years ago. Mother’s Day always causes me to do some reflecting. I was the youngest of three and her only boy. Yes, I’m a Mama’s boy. 🙂  Mrs. Ann Overstreet Kitchings, had many strengths, but I don’t have time to elaborate in this brief article. (Perhaps a book one day… Ann Flew High Until the Day She Died?) Ok, back to the point of this writing today—she intentionally reached out to love those that needed a loving touch.

MY MOM TAUGHT ME HOW TO VISIT NURSING HOMES… When I was a child, my mama would take me to this one particular Nursing Home. It was not very nice, but the residents were. Why? Because I belonged to Mrs. Ann. She spoke to everyone and ministered to those that needed it most. She understood what the least of these meant and modeled it in front of me. I’m thankful and always remember this practice when I enter Nursing Homes today. I’m not as good as she was, but I sure try to be as much like her as I can in certain situations while visiting.

MY MOM SPENT HER FINAL DAYS IN A NURSING HOME… My mom was in her “sweet spot” when she went home to be with the Lord. The final months of her life were spent as a resident in a local nursing home. I witnessed her being a Preacher’s Wife again—meaning, the joy of loving others was evident. She made the most of her final days by soaring with the strength her Jesus talked about often… “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them…” ~Romans 12:9a

MAYBE YOU AND I NEED TO GO VISIT A NURSING HOME THIS WEEK? What a wonderful time to reach out to those mom’s that may or may not have family left on this earth or in this city. Whatever strength your mom, my mom, or other moms have or had that align with God’s Word, let’s recall it and consider practicing it.

Remember your leaders who taught you the word of God. Think of all the good that has come from their lives, and follow the example of their faith. ~Hebrews 13:7

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Barbara Bush in failing health, declines medical treatment

By Dr. Jim Denison | April 16, 2018
“It will not surprise those who know her that Barbara Bush has been a rock in the face of her failing health, worrying not for herself—thanks to her abiding faith—but for others. She is surrounded by a family she adores, and appreciates the many kind messages and especially the prayers she is receiving.”

With these words, a family spokesman announced yesterday that Mrs. Bush has decided to end medical treatment and will focus on comfort care.

Tributes to the former first lady have already begun.

UN Ambassador Nikki Haley called her “a woman of great faith, great strength, and an unwavering love of country.” On the other side of the political spectrum, Chelsea Clinton tweeted, “I will never forget how kind she was to me on every occasion we met, and how fondly the White House staff always spoke of her.”

I know of no more universally admired person in American politics than Barbara Bush. Conversely, I know of no more polarizing person than the other political figure making headlines today.

James Comey was interviewed last night by ABC’s George Stephanopoulos. The former FBI director is promoting his new book, A Higher Loyalty: Truth, Lies, and Leadership. I watched the interview and am not surprised that reaction fell on partisan lines.

Whatever your thoughts on Mr. Comey, it’s clear that our nation’s politics are deeply divisive. In the decades after George H. W. Bush served as president, political animosity in America has increased exponentially.

In times like these, we need the example of Barbara Bush.

A tragedy that changed her life

Janet and I were deeply honored to meet Mrs. Bush when she spoke at Dallas Baptist University’s Russell Perry Award dinner in 2001. She was as gracious in private as she was in public. As the wife of one president and mother of another, she is famous the world over for her courage, compassion, and humor.

The Washington Post has an insightful story about Barbara Bush and her family that helps explain her remarkable character.

The daughter of a New York publishing executive, she met her future husband in 1941 at a country club dance in Greenwich, Connecticut. She was sixteen years old. They became engaged in the summer of 1943 and were married in 1945. Their first son, George Walker Bush, was born on July 6, 1946, as his father was completing his studies at Yale.

Two years later, they moved to Odessa, a town in West Texas. They were transferred briefly to California before moving to Midland, where their family settled into the oil business.

In 1953, their three-year-old daughter, Robin, fell ill with leukemia. Eight months later, she died.

Barbara Bush was twenty-eight. The tragedy turned her hair white and has marked her family for the rest of their lives.

Faith, family, and service

She later explained what sustained her through the worst pain a mother can know: “We believed in God and that made an enormous difference in our lives then and now.” She also said, “Because of Robin, George and I love every living human more.”

Her life priorities—faith, family, service—have inspired millions since.

Given her lifelong love for America, it is not surprising that Barbara Bush was a direct descendant of a Mayflower immigrant.

After her husband’s highly decorated military service and successful business career, the couple entered a life of public service that led to his nomination in 1988 for president. Mrs. Bush became the first candidate’s spouse to address the convention that nominated her husband. After his election, they hosted the first open house inaugural reception since President Taft in 1909.

Her love of reading was encouraged early by her father. Childhood evenings were spent with family members reading together. In 1989, she formed the Barbara Bush Foundation for Family Literacy, noting that “the home is the child’s first school, the parent is the child’s first teacher, and reading is the child’s first subject.”

She has been especially noted for her sense of humor. Speaking to Wellesley College graduates in 1990, she stated, “Somewhere out in this audience may even be someone who will one day follow in my footsteps, and preside over the White House as the president’s spouse. I wish him well!”

When she and her husband returned to private life in 1992, she said, “It’s been different. I started driving again. I started cooking again. My driving’s better than my cooking.”

“Let your light shine”

This morning’s national coverage of Barbara Bush’s failing health reveals something about us: despite today’s political divisiveness, we respond intuitively to character, courage, and humor.
When we see a person living out her faith under decades of public scrutiny, we are drawn to her example and to her Lord.

Jesus taught us to “let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). Faith, family, and service have been Barbara Bush’s lifelong priorities.

What “good works” will you do to glorify God today?

Stephen Hawking’s atheism: 3 responses

StephenHawkingBy Dr. Jim Denison

Stephen Hawking was one of the greatest physicists in history. One professor predicted that scientists “will still be talking about Hawking radiation,” his theory about black holes, a thousand years from now.

His spirit was buoyant as well; an actor who played him in a 2014 biopic called him “the funniest man I have ever met.” I was deeply impressed upon reading his bestseller, A Brief History of Time, and am not surprised that it has sold more than ten million copies.

After Hawking died this week, I read his autobiography, My Brief History. His story is both fascinating and tragic, with enormous implications for our faith and culture today.

He “wanted to fathom the depths of the universe”

The facts of Stephen Hawking’s life read like a novel. He was born on January 8, 1942, exactly three hundred years after the death of Galileo. He did not learn to read until the age of eight. He was never ranked more than halfway up his academic class.

When Hawking was diagnosed with ALS at the age of twenty-one, doctors predicted that he would live only another two years. He survived his disease for fifty-five years. As his body deteriorated, eventually he used a single cheek muscle to control communication devices, writing only a few words a minute.

Nonetheless, he was able to produce groundbreaking scientific work. He was especially known for his explanation of the behavior of black holes. From the beginning of his academic career, Hawking “wanted to fathom the depths of the universe,” seeking to understand “where we came from and why we are here.”

Several times in his autobiography, he states that he had a “satisfying life.” He points to his successful career, the fact that he was married twice and had three “beautiful and accomplished children,” and his global travels and meetings with world leaders.

He concludes his book: “I’m happy if I have added something to our understanding of the universe.”

Three arguments for atheism

Some atheists reject God’s existence because they cannot reconcile an all-knowing, all-loving, all-powerful God with evil and suffering in the universe. Tragedies such as yesterday’s bridge collapse in Florida cause skeptics such as Sam Harris to proclaim that there is no God.

Hawking’s atheism was of another kind.

He stated clearly: “We are each free to believe what we want and it is my view that the simplest explanation is that there is no God. No one created the universe and no one directs our fate.”

It’s not that Hawking had no exposure to biblical truth. His father insisted that he study the Bible as a child for its literary value. In My Brief History, he tells of working with a research assistant who “was an evangelical Christian, and he did his best to convert me when he later came to live with us in Cambridge. He used to read me Bible stories at breakfast.” The physicist assured him that he “knew the Bible well” from earlier studies. Hawking even helped smuggle Bibles into the Soviet Union at the request of a Baptist who was part of his travel group.

In A Brief History of Time, he referred to the “mind of God.” However, he meant only “the embodiment of the laws of nature.” In my research, I found at least three reasons why Hawking chose atheism.

First, he rejected the concept of a personal God with whom we can have a personal relationship: “When you look at the vast size of the universe and how insignificant an accidental human life is in it, that seems most impossible.” But why? Why is the apparent insignificance of a human life relevant to the existence of a Creator and the possibility of relationship with him?

Second, he became convinced that “spontaneous creation” explains the existence of the universe, with no need to appeal to a Creator. But his theory requires the prior existence of gravity. As Oxford mathematician John Lennox notes, Hawking must then explain how gravity came to be. He must also explain how a law can create physical reality (for instance, Newton’s laws of motion do not cause a moving car to exist). And, even given Hawking’s parameters, could God not have designed a self-creating universe?

Third, he asserted: “I regard the brain as a computer which will stop working when its components fail. There is no heaven or afterlife for broken-down computers; that is a fairy story for people afraid of the dark.”

But computers and people are far more different than we are alike. This is what philosophers call a “category mistake,” like asking the color of seven or the weight of a circle. The fact that computers have no afterlife bears no relevance to an afterlife for humans.

Upon this mistaken logic, Hawking tragically risked his eternity.

“I am the bread of life”

Why does Stephen Hawking’s atheism matter today?

Imagine what his brilliant mind could have contributed to humankind if it had been empowered by the Spirit of God. Imagine his influence as an intellectual Christian. And imagine his eternal reward if he had turned from the creation to its Creator, trusting his soul to our Savior.

If Christians do not grieve the deaths of Stephen Hawking and other non-Christians, something is wrong. We are then implicit universalists, ignoring the fact that “whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God” (John 3:18). Such a person is not in the “book of life” and will spend eternity separated from God in hell (Revelation 20:15).

If people could go to heaven without Jesus, why did Jesus die for us? Why did Paul have “great sorrow and unceasing anguish in my heart” for his fellow Jews who had rejected the gospel (Romans 9:2)?

Our Savior’s invitation is still open: “I am the bread of life; whoever come to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst” (John 6:35). But we must turn from ourselves to our Maker: “It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh is no help at all” (v. 63).

Beware the “illusion of knowledge”

Ironically, Stephen Hawking was convinced that “the greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge.” However, his rejection of God was one such “illusion of knowledge.” Now, tragically, he knows better.

Are you praying for the non-Christians you know to know the Truth before it is too late?

HOW ARE WE TO REACT IN LIGHT OF RECENT MORAL FAILURES AMONG CLERGY? 

Like many of you, I have been heartbroken over the news about some of our more “high profiled” pastors.  For example, I opened up the Tampa Bay Times this past Sunday (April 8th edition) and the front-page headline read:  Broken Trust—How Henry Lyons cheated a Tampa church and a wealthy charity.  And a few weeks ago, Dr. Bill Hybels, founder of Willow Creek Community Church in Chicago was accused of sexual misconduct.  Furthermore, our own Dr. Frank Page, President and Chief Executive of the Southern Baptist Convention stepped down due to an admitted morally inappropriate relationship. The news about all three of these men has been made public in the past month.

 

Here are my thoughts…

 

>BUT BY THE GRACE OF GOD…  It’s by God’s grace that any of us aren’t marked by a “fall” of some kind during our lifetime.  WE must never, ever, be quick to judge.  And we certainly should never judge what we do not know.  That is not our role!  “When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, ‘Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.’”  ~John 8:7

 

>CONFRONTING A FELLOW BELIEVER CAN BE APPROPRIATE…  Have you seen the popular T-Shirt that says something to the effect of Who are you to judge me?   Church discipline is taught in the Old Testament and the New Testament.  Why?  Ultimately, for restoration!  Sometimes that occurs and sometimes it doesn’t.  But just as Nathan confronted David, occasionally at the right moment, and at the right time, God may lead us to confront an erring fellow believer.  “Then David said to Nathan, ‘I have sinned against the Lord.’ ~2 Samuel 12:13

 

>CONSEQUENCES ARE SURE TO FOLLOW MORAL FAILURE…  I have witnessed minister friends be restored.  Without fail, the consequences have been awful! (Read the full story of David) Some are back in full-time ministry.  Some are not.  A moral failure does not have to define a person.  “… But where sin multiplied, grace multiplied even more.”  ~Romans 5:20 Yes, the consequences are costly, but I do believe ministers can be restored.

 

>WE MUST PRAY FOR PASTORS AND CHURCHES TO BEAR THE IMAGE OF CHRIST… The Apostle Paul taught us to pray  “for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions” (1 Timothy 2:1-2).  Folks, Paul even asked believers to pray for him! (Ephesians 6:18-19)  If Paul needed it, I certainly do, and you probably do too.   Please pray for these minsters mentioned above and please pray for others.  With social media and the evils of our day, we must be vigilant. THANK YOU!

 

A good name is better than fine perfume, and the day of death better than the day of birth. ~Ecclesiastes 7:1

How Martin Luther King Jr.’s courage challenges us today

By Dr. Jim Denison

Fifty years ago today, at 6:01 p.m. EST, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was fatally shot. He was pronounced dead at 7:05 p.m.

Redemption: Martin Luther King Jr.’s Last 31 Hours is a riveting narrative of the events that led to Dr. King’s tragic death. Written by veteran journalist Joseph Rosenbloom, the book chronicles the last thirty-one hours and twenty-eight minutes of Dr. King’s life.

Rosenbloom explains why the great civil rights leader was in Memphis and paints an extraordinary picture of his commitment and courage.

Why he came to Memphis

In 1968, Dr. King was working to mobilize what he called the “Poor People’s Campaign” in Washington, DC. His goal was to gather thousands of impoverished people of all races from all across the country. They would stage protests at our nation’s capital until lawmakers enacted reforms to eradicate poverty in this country.

In the midst of this massive effort, he was asked to divert his attention to Memphis to support a garbage collectors’ strike that had been ongoing in that city for weeks. Dr. King felt he owed these men and their families his support, so he and his leadership team made their way to join them.

Of course, he could not have known that an escaped felon named James Earl Ray was seeking to murder him. Ray had been discharged from the Army, but not before he acquired basic proficiency with a rifle. After escaping from prison, he followed a circuitous route that brought him to Memphis.

There he learned through television and newspaper reports that Dr. King was staying at the Lorraine Motel in room 306, his usual lodging when in the city. Ray rented a room in a run-down building across the street.

Dr. King and his group were planning a dinner that night at a supporter’s home. He walked from his room onto the hotel balcony and was talking with his friends in the parking lot below when Ray fired the bullet that killed him.

“I’ll never live to be forty”

I was especially moved by Rosenbloom’s description of Dr. King’s steadfast courage in the face of enormous peril. For example, his traveling group was forced to disembark from their airplane to Memphis after a bomb threat had been reported. Only after the plane was searched were they permitted to re-board the aircraft.

Rosenbloom reports that, despite numerous death threats, Dr. King rarely sought police protection. He believed that if his enemies were determined to kill him, they would likely succeed.

Dr. King told his attorney, “I’ll never live to be forty. I’ll never make it.” “He was philosophical about his death,” longtime colleague Andrew Young said later. “He knew it would come, and he just decided, you know, there was nothing to do about it.”

When President Kennedy was assassinated in 1963, Dr. King told his wife, Coretta, that he expected to die in the same way himself. If the president of the United States could not be protected from an assassin, he believed that no public figure was truly safe.

The night before he was murdered, he told a crowd of supporters that God had allowed him to reach the mountaintop and see the Promised Land. “I may not get there with you,” he told them. “But I want you to know, tonight, that we, as a people, will get to the Promised Land.” Then he exclaimed, “Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord.”

The next day, he would see the Lord himself.

“Fear not, for I am with you”

There is so much we could say about Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. this morning.

We could remember his visionary leadership in helping enact some of the most significant civil rights legislation in our nation’s history. We could remember his intellectual brilliance as a world-class theologian and orator. We could remember his sacrificial service on behalf of those he led (he donated nearly all of the $200,000 he received in honoraria each year to his civil rights organization).

However, I am focusing today on Dr. King’s remarkable courage. He knew that Memphis was a boiling cauldron of racial conflict but traveled to the city despite its dangers. He knew that many were seeking his death but continued forward. He paid for his vision with his life.

His courage stands today as a model for all who would serve their Lord and their neighbor with transformative purpose.

Before God sent Joshua out to lead his people into the Promised Land, he challenged him: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9).

David said to his son Solomon, “Be strong and courageous and do it. Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed, for the Lord God, even my God, is with you. He will not leave you or forsake you” (1 Chronicles 28:20). Paul testified: “I can do all things through him who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

Where do you need the courage of Christ to serve his cause?

When I was a pastor in Atlanta, Dr. John Haggai (not the San Antonio pastor of similar name) became a dear friend and mentor. His life motto still challenges and encourages me today: “Attempt something so great for God it’s doomed to failure unless God be in it.”

I know of no better way to honor Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. or to serve his God.

Did you hear about the guy that was invited to an event he wasn’t particularly interested in but is going anyway?

HalIt’s me! Yep, that’s right, it is me. I was invited by a certain acquaintance to attend a good event that I’m not particularly fired up about due to all that’s going on in my life as a pastor, husband, dad, grandad, friend, etc.  (You are busy, you get it.)  But here’s what I will tell you, I was not offended, fully expected it at some point, and am going to go because I appreciate the passion this person has by including me.  I really believe this individual thinks our church and I will be better off because of it.  So, there you go…

EASTER Sunday is an ideal time to invite those who aren’t necessarily interested in church…  I’m sure the event I’m attending will be fine, but it’s not going to focus on the gospel—Jesus came, lived a perfect life to die for our sins, and He rose from the dead—which changes everything!  Who are you inviting?  The person may be expecting, waiting, and willing if only we will just do it!

The title of my sermon Easter is literally that it changes everything!  Why?  Because it’s been my experience, the experience of millions, that HE does!  It’s in Jesus we have hope—no matter our circumstances.  But many, many people don’t know that hope.  Let’s do this…

Until next time…

I ONCE GAVE BILLY GRAHAM A PIECE OF MISSISSIPPI CARAMEL CAKE—SORT OF…

Billy-Graham-Birthday Like many of you, I’ve been touched by the home-going of Dr. Billy Graham in numerous ways.  And like so many, I have my own Billy Graham stories.  (They really aren’t that big of a deal, but due to being raised during the prime of his career, it’s fun to think about.)  Besides the obvious—seeing movies, hearing him on TV, etc., I had three more “personal” experiences. First, I attended a Billy Graham Crusade in Jackson, MS, as a teenager and one of my friends gave their life to Christ.  Second, I was a summer camp counselor while in college at Camp Rockmont, a Christian boys camp in Black Mountain, NC, where Dr. Graham’s grandson attended.  He was in our “tribe” and stayed in the cabin next door. His name is Jonathan Lotz, Anne Graham Lotz, son.  He was a good kid and from what I understand has become a fine young man.  Third, my son Trey, and I attended a conference a few years ago at the Billy Graham Training Center (The Cove).  While there, I actually drove Trey over to Camp Rockmont to see where I worked that summer during my college years.  While there, we “ran into” the Camp Director when I worked there.  (I didn’t tell him, but I actually thought he had passed away.)  He invited us into his house and we shared memories and stories.  Here’s the story that eventually connected to Dr. Graham having caramel cake… My seasoned friend/boss and his wife had known the Grahams for years.  (They were practically neighbors up there in those mountains.)  He shared that his now deceased wife use to make Billy Graham a Mississippi Caramel cake every year.  (She was a native Mississippian and her mother had taught her how to bake.)  Dr. Graham often expressed how he missed my Camp Director’s wife and her caramel cake.  Sooooo, upon our return from the trip, I found a first-class caramel cake making company in my native state of Mississippi and had it sent it to my Director because he had been so kind to Trey and me.  Several weeks later I received a letter from the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association thanking me for the cake.  My former boss had eaten a piece and then sent the rest to his friend/neighbor, Billy Graham.  Billy Graham’s secretary sent me a note saying that although Billy wasn’t supposed to eat sweets on a regular basis, they allowed him to eat a piece of the caramel cake.  He greatly enjoyed it and shared the rest with his staff.  Isn’t that awesome?  So, Trey and I feel like the one and only Dr. Billy Graham ate a piece of caramel cake that we had sent to the mountains.  It was a mountaintop experience for my son and me for sure.   I will likely frame that note now and forever remember how sweet it was that God allowed us to have that experience.  As I reflect on his life during the past week, I feel a sense of loss.  One of the greatest Christian men and evangelist that ever lived is no longer on earth.  And we rejoice that he is in heaven with Jesus and his beloved wife.  Like so many others, I just miss the reality of him still being alive.  It made the world a better place, even though he was confined to his bed recently. But we have a responsibility to continue the work of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  We all have a mission field, a sphere of influence, so let’s use it for Kingdom Purposes and finish strong—just like Dr. Graham!  Life will be that much sweeter if we will…